永远的精灵——写给我可爱的孩子们
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我有一群孩子,他们天真、无邪、可爱、淘气!我有一群孩子,只要一闭上眼睛,他们就会在脑海中出现。他们有时会安静地瞪大眼睛看着你,有时会忙个不停在教室里奔来跑去,直到你眼花缭乱、目不暇接。他们是谁呢?不用想,那一定是—Hugo、Paris、萝卜。
  我有一群这样的孩子,温柔、、聪颖、伶俐!每天会大声地向我问好,每天会告诉我很多的小秘密,有时也会像小百灵一样叽叽喳喳地在我耳边说个不停,他们是Kelvin、聪译、Theresa。
  我有一群这样的孩子,他们乖巧、懂事,有自己的想法和快乐,总是喜欢看书或做一些自己的事情,悦悦、Samson、俊彦、Harris,是他们吗?我想--是的。
  我还有三个像“吉祥三宝”一样的孩子,他们可爱、搞笑,可又是那份聪明劲让我记忆深刻—他们是花生、贝贝、Aki。 
  我还有两个很可爱的女孩子,别看她们是班上年纪最小的,可能力却一点也不输给其他的宝贝,那就非子乔和Kelly莫属啦!
  这些都是我的好孩子。我发现,我拥有好多的孩子。我发现,原来我是那么的幸福……在葡萄班,有着太多感人的故事,我却无法一一讲述;
  在葡萄班,有着太多感动的画面,我却难以一一描绘。不知道多少次,我问孩子:在幼儿园,你开心吗?孩子的回答总是一句话:开心!虽然是两个简单的字,但她们幼小稚嫩的心灵里已经深深感受到了,在这里她们享受着无比的爱和温暖。
  我的孩子们,你们2岁了,上幼稚园了,要开始学会面对困难的选择,即使它充满了不如意;
  你们是孩子,需要玩伴,大人们缺乏和你一样充满爱的想象力;
  你们是一个社会人,需要规则、约束、集体感;
  但我也知道,你们是最依恋妈妈的孩子,是最享受和妈妈在一起的孩子。
  开学的这几天,看着你们和老师挣脱着哭的撕心裂肺的样子,听到你们午睡时在喊“妈妈我要回家”,放学时看到爸爸妈妈迫不及待将你们揽入怀里的心疼。真的,我的心里有些矛盾……不过让我们一起慢慢的面对吧,总会好的! 
  我带着Aki在幼稚园里找了两天的妈妈,看着他委屈的哭泣,我不忍心告诉他现在是上学妈妈不能来接你。于是,我们俩不停的走,不断的找……第三天,AKI对我说:我们不找妈妈了,找也找不到,就在班上等吧。中午我陪他聊了很久,我一直在试着看懂这个孩子,也看懂自己。
  老师:Aki,老师希望你坚强。每个孩子都要上幼儿园,幼儿园可以教会你很多东西,有很多小朋友和你一起玩,你会很开心。妈妈也不愿意和你分开,但我们都需要长大,需要学习和进步。你不哭,坚强一点好吗?你不哭妈妈就不会担心。
  Aki:我不要上幼儿园,我要找妈妈,我想妈妈。
  老师:幼儿园有很多好玩的事情,除了想妈妈,你想想,有什么好玩的,让人高兴的,比如呢?
  Aki:我就是要找妈妈,找妈妈。
  老师:我知道,你很想妈妈,但是我们在学校看不见妈妈的时候,要尽量的高兴,开心,保证安全,这样你妈妈就不会担心。
  Aki:我担心妈妈。
  老师:那饶老师向你保证,在幼儿园的时候,乖乖的不哭,妈妈在家也乖乖的,一定不让你担心。拉钩! 
  Aki:好!
  真好,我的孩子,我们都在试着了解对方,让对方知道心里想的是什么,需要什么。
  午睡时,我喜欢握着孩子的手在掌心,小小的,只有我手的三分之一那么大。那样的柔软,那样的细滑,也温暖了我的心。很庆幸,自己曾经的选择是对的,因为世界上没有比这更幸福了,所以我喜欢拉着孩子们的手,跟她们玩玩具,和她们一起画画,带她们一起散步,拉着她们的手说着悄悄话,陪她们安静的入睡。
  晚上在家,电话铃声响起,是聪译妈妈。妈妈说宝宝不愿意上幼儿园,她们为此很苦恼。我也很惊讶,因为她在幼儿园表现的很好,很开心,似乎没有不乐意上幼儿园的征兆。我问,宝宝为何不愿意呀?一定是有原因的吧。妈妈告诉我,宝宝不愿意在幼儿园睡觉。我马上想起她每天睡觉都很乖,还都是自己睡着的,不需要我去陪。妈妈又解释说,宝宝和她哭诉,贝贝有梅老师陪,子乔有饶老师陪,洛欣有璐璐老师陪,就我没有人陪。老师会陪一些睡觉就会哭的宝宝,因此就忽视了那些乖一些的宝宝,因为她们的情绪没有外露出来。等我们陪着这些宝宝睡着的时候,聪译也在渴望中睡着了。我们也会去摸摸她们可爱的小脸,为她们把被子拉好。只是她们已经睡着了,没有发现。而我也明白了妈妈的心意。
  第二天中午,我坐在聪译的床边,拉着她的手,抚摸着她粉嫩的小脸。“今天老师陪你,好吗?”她点头微笑,“你以后要开开心心的上幼儿园,因为老师和小朋友都喜欢你,今天,饶老师会陪你,明天璐璐老师会陪你,还有小朋友都在这里陪你做游戏,和你一起睡觉。我们都是喜欢你的。”她轻声说:“老师是喜欢我的!我也喜欢你哦!”拉着我的手如此的坚定,我摸摸她的手指,不一会儿就安静的睡着了。
  正因为老师的手大,才可以握着那么多双稚嫩的小手,正因为老师的胸怀宽广,才可以容纳那么多孩子的心。我要用我的大手拉起你们的小手,用我全部的爱来爱所有的孩子。
  人生的旅途,爸爸、妈妈、老师只能陪伴你走到累。要找回自己的那个气球,需要你一直努力的走下去。
  我的孩子,请你一直保持这样的笑容。
  记得,生命的旅途这根线拽在你自己的手里。
  目光也要如此坚定。
  还要有游戏的心情,面对问题时候的可爱鬼脸。
  有些东西,可以假装看不见。
  累的时候,停下来休息下,看看风景。
  露出可爱的小虎牙。开怀的笑! 
  用最温暖的笑容,接住生活给你的幸福!
                                     


The for ever elves-for my lovely children

  There is a group of children in my class who are naive, lovely, and naughty. As soon as I close my eyes, they appear in my mind. Sometimes they are staring at me quietly and sometimes they are running in the classroom and making me dizzy. Who are they? Undoubtedly they are Hugo, Paris, and Carrot.
  There is a group of children who are gentle, intelligent, and clever. They say hello to me loudly and tell me many secrets everyday. Sometimes they are twittering just like sparrows. They are Kelvin, Congyi, and Theresa.
  There is a group of children who are cute and sensible, having their own ideas and happiness. They always like reading or doing their own things. They must be Yueyue, Samson, Junyan, and Harris. 
  There are also three children like "Three Lucky guys". They are lovely, humorous, and intelligent and I feel deeply for them. They are Huasheng, Beibei, and Aki.
  There are two lovely girls who are younger but stronger than the others. They are Ziqiao and Kelly.
  These are my good children. I find that I have many children and I am so happy. In the grape class, there are so many impressive stories, it is impossible to list all. In the grape class, there are a lot of touching scenes and it is impossible to describe all. Countless times I asked the children: Are you happy in the kindergarten? They answered: Happy! Only one simple word which means they enjoyed the unmatched love and warmth in the kindergarten.
  My children, you are 2 years old and you are already in kindergarten. You are starting to face life‘s difficulties although you are unwilling to do it. 
  You are children and you need playmates. Adults don‘t have as much imagination as you have.
  You are social people who need to understand regulations, restrictions, and teamwork.
  But I understand that you depend on your mother and enjoy the time with her.
  In the first days of kindergarten, you disentangled from teachers‘ arms with crying. During naptime, you yelled, "Mum, I want to go home." After school, your parents gathered you into their arms. Frankly speaking, I feel conflicted. Let‘s face it together and I believe everything will go well. 
  I took Aki "looking for" his mother in the kindergarten for two days. I didn‘t have the heart to tell him that his mother couldn‘t take him during school time. So we kept walking around until the third day when he told me: "We don‘t need to look for my mum. Let‘s wait in the classroom." At noon, I chatted with him for a long time. I always tried to understand this child and also understand myself.
  Teacher (T): Aki, I hope you can be stronger. Every child needs to attend kindergarten, and you can gain a lot of knowledge here. You can play with many other children and you will be very happy. Your mother doesn‘t want to part with you either. But we need to grow up, study, and  improve ourselves. Be stronger, OK? If you don‘t cry, your mother won‘t have to worry about you.
  Aki (A): I don‘t want to attend kindergarten. I want my mum and I miss her.
  T: there are many interesting things here besides missing your mother. Let‘s think of some funny and happy things. For example?
  A: I just want my mum.
  T: I know you miss her so much. But let‘s try to be happy without seeing your mother, and ensure safety. If we do so, your mother won‘t be worried about you.
  A: I am worried about my mum.
  T: I promise you that as long as you don‘t cry; your mother can take care of herself at home. It‘s a deal.
  A: Good!
  Well done, my children! We are trying to understand each other and express our thoughts.  
  I usually hold children‘s small hands which are only a third the size of mine. I feel so lucky to be chosen to be a teacher, which is the happiest thing in the world. That‘s why I love to hold children‘s hands and play toys with them, draw pictures, take a walk or whisper in their ears or keep them company as they fall asleep.
  I received a call from Cong Yi‘s mother after I went back home. She was worried about her child because she was unwilling to attend the kindergarten. I was so surprised because Cong Yi performed well all the time in the kindergarten, without any bad symptoms. I asked the reason and she told me that Cong Yi didn‘t want to sleep in the kindergarten. I suddenly remembered that she slept alone every time in the kindergarten. Her mother explained that Cong Yi had whined to her, "The teachers don‘t keep me company at naptime; however my classmates Bei Bei, Zi Qiao and Luo Xin were accompanied by Teacher Mei, Ms Rao and Ms Lu separately." Teachers usually spend time with the kids who cry loudly during noon nap, and sometimes they ignore those well-behaved children, who are not demonstrative. After the other children stopped crying, Cong Yi fell asleep, still waiting for a teacher. Teachers also touch their cute faces and pull the quilt up to their chin after they are asleep. I understood Cong Yi‘s mother‘s thought.
  The next noon, I sat on her bed, held her hand and touched her pink face, and I told her "I‘ll keep you company today, OK?" She nodded and smiled. I continued: "You should be happy in the kindergarten in the future, for all of us love you. I‘m keeping you company today and tomorrow it will be Lu Lu. There are many children to play games with you and sleep with you. You know we all love you so much. " She whispered: "Teachers love me, and I love you too." She held my hand firmly and soon fell asleep. 
  Teachers‘ big hands can hold many children‘s small hands. Teachers‘ broad hearts can hold many children‘s hearts. I love to hold children‘s hands and I love every child. 
    In your life journey, parents and teachers can only accompany you for some distance. To find your own path, you must set out on your own. 
  My children please keep smiling.
  Please remember, the string of life‘s journey is in your hand.
  Please maintain firm eyes.
  Have a positive attitude and you can smile while facing difficulties.
  Some things you can ignore.
  You can stop and enjoy the scenery along the journey if you get tired.
  Show your cute little teeth and laugh loudly!
  Receive your happiness with a warm smile!



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